Prayer to Mary
by Rebecca Harpring
My dear Heavenly Mother Mary, you know the pain of losing a child. Please be at my side as I mourn the loss of my baby through miscarriage. My many hopes and desires for my baby now seem gone, but they are not. Help me see that God is transforming them by His infinite goodness and love for my baby. Help me find comfort in knowing that God has my baby’s little soul in His merciful keeping while I hold my baby in my heart. We ask this, in Jesus’ name, through your intercession. Amen.
Prayer to St. Catherine of Sweden for Healing and Consolation after Miscarriage
Author Unknown
Dear Saint Catherine, patron of those who have suffered a miscarriage, you know the dangers that await unborn infants.
Please intercede for me that I may receive healing from the loss I have suffered.
My soul has been deprived of peace and I have forgotten what true happiness is.
As I mourn the loss of my child, I place myself in the hands of God and ask for strength to accept His will in all things, for consolation in my grief, and for peace in my sorrow.
Glorious Saint Catherine, hear my prayers and ask that God, in good time, grant me a healthy baby who will become a true child of God.
Amen.
Prayer by Mother Angelica from EWTN
My Lord, the baby is dead!
Why, my Lord – dare I ask why? It will not hear the whisper of the wind or see the beauty of its parents’ face – it will not see the beauty of Your creation or the flame of a sunrise. Why, my Lord? “Why, My child – do you ask ‘why’? Well, I will tell you why.
You see, the child lives. Instead of the wind he hears the sound of angels singing before My throne. Instead of the beauty that passes he sees everlasting Beauty – he sees My face. He was created and lived a short time so the image of his parents imprinted on his face may stand before Me as their personal intercessor. He knows secrets of heaven unknown to men on earth. He laughs with a special joy that only the innocent possess. My ways are not the ways of man. I create for My Kingdom and each creature fills a place in that Kingdom that could not be filled by another. He was created for My joy and his parents’ merits. He has never seen pain or sin. He has never felt hunger or pain. I breathed a soul into a seed, made it grow and called it forth.”
I am humbled before you, my Lord, for questioning Your wisdom, goodness, and love. I speak as a fool – forgive me. I acknowledge Your sovereign rights over life and death. I thank You for the life that began for so short a time to enjoy so long an Eternity.
A Prayer After Miscarriage
from the Marians of the Immaculate Conception
O my Jesus,
my life has changed forever.
I’m separated in this world from my beloved baby [name].
I beg for Your mercy for me, and for all who mourn.
I rely on Your promise that all who mourn will be comforted (Mt 5:4).
Help me to persevere in faith,
so that one day I may praise You
in the company of my baby and all of the saints.
Please accept my suffering and unite it with Yours for the salvation of all souls,
and fill my emptiness with Your mercy
that I may continue to love and serve others in my life.
I surrender to You all my needs, doubts, and anger.
You are the Source of my strength, hope, and consolation.
Even when I don’t understand what is being asked of me, help me to live in imitation of You and Your Blessed Mother in acceptance of the Father’s plan of loving kindness.
Lord, thank You for hearing my prayer, even at times when the depths of my sorrow won’t allow me to speak it aloud.
I entrust my baby to Your mercy,
as I entrust my life to You.
Amen.
